Saturday, December 6, 2014

Conscience vs Business

Well, it is official ~ I am not cut out to be a cut throat business woman 

Now, I truly enjoy the hunting, buying, and selling. I delight in the research on each piece and don’t even mind the cleaning and occasional repair. But two sales in the last week have cinched it. My heart is just too soft to be a tycoon.

Today I convinced the Middle One to go forego being the first dealers at a sale’s last day to drive 20 minutes in the opposite direction for the first day of a different sale.  For your information, the difference between the first and last is significant.  First day prices usually stand as is, but last day prices are usually 25 – 50% off.  We knew what we might find at the last day. (We’d been there on the first and had taken note of what might still be around)  But this other sale had an item I knew I could sell. I knew exactly what condition it needed to be in. I knew the photo supported that. I knew exactly how much I could get for it. It’s an item I am very familiar with AND one that the Major is an expert in.  So all that was necessary was to show up early enough to be one of the first people through the door, seek it out quickly and grab it. Sounds simple. Easy Money. 

I didn’t count on my heart getting involved.

We arrived 20 min before the sale, the Middle One jumped out and got our name on the list, #8 and #9.  When the doors opened, they took the first 10 people.  We were in.  Two seconds in the door: and I spotted my prey.  Fifteen seconds in: I have my hands on it. The Middle One was at my shoulder.  We were examining.  The price was a bit higher than I wanted to pay but I KNEW I could still make a good profit on it.   One minute in: a lady appears at the Middle One’s shoulder.  She was interested, too.  Continuing to look, we plug it in….it works.  We sort out the items that don’t go with it. Turning it up on end, I see that it was last serviced March 21, 1975, but it still sounds great. We go through the accessories….more than expected.  It is in fabulous condition. The case is in excellent condition.   The lady says she is going to stay in case we don’t take it. 

I look up… and there it is … 
the look on her face. 

Dear heavens….she wants this piece.  I can see it. I know the look because once upon a time, I wanted one.  After waiting for years, I finally have three of my own. (thank you to the Major for those) Now I’m searching it over just to buy time while my mind races.  I’m weighing what to do. We can sell this, I know we can. We would make good money.  I don’t doubt the lady could afford to buy one at what I would ask, but these are becoming fairly hard to come by especially at this price, in this condition.  A look at the Middle One tells me she knows my quandary. I insisted we come to this sale, for just this purpose. We are 45 minutes from the sale we had intended to visit…just because of this.  There’s not much else at this sale for us. But I see the look on the lady’s face.  

The contest is conscience  vs business & profit

Taking a deep breath and facing the patiently, though anxiously, waiting prospect I heard myself say “I’m going to let you have this one. It’s a good deal. It’s in good shape, has a lot of attachments. You will want to get it serviced. Do you know where the Quilt Haus is? I took mine there and they had someone who does service, check with them.”  The look on her face changed, she was stunned. She said she had used one, her mother in law’s I think, but even though the MIL didn’t use it any longer, she wouldn’t let her have it. She sews.  She quilts.  She had tears in her eyes. She hugged me.  

Conscience wins

I told her to enjoy it. That I loved mine and knew she would. And I walked away.  And I looked at the Middle One, and I said “I’m sorry”. She  told me not to apologize. We discussed it some and she assured me that following my instinct was right. She alluded to us being there for a purpose.

I turned around and walked back in the room where they were packing it up and asked if she needed an owner’s manual. I know the Major has a digital version and possibly an original, he used to deal in these. They gave me their email address so I can send a digital copy.  As they were finishing up and paying and headed out the door I heard her husband say “there’s my Christmas shopping done, Merry Christmas”.

I apologized to the Middle One
 again, and again, and again  

I learned that I will never be a hard-nosed business woman.  Seeing the look on this lady’s face was worth giving it up.

So my friends, that is why there is no vintage Singer Featherweight sewing machine, in excellent condition, with original attachments, additional attachments, with a case in excellent condition, for sale in our shop. 

We are OK with this

More on that second sale later...